New Contests

I’ve posted new contests on my contests & freebies page, check them out!

New Contests

I’m working today to bring you some new contests and freebies. Please check out my Contests & Freebies page to see them. I will be adding more throughout the day, so check back soon!

So far, I have

2ewenique Boutique

Ladies Alliance

Gifts for All, NC

Lucky Daddy Giveaway

Each month, Saige Nicole’s has a ‘Lucky Mama Give-a-way’. In celebration of all the Good Daddies out there, Saige Nicole’s has made it fun for them too! The lucky winner will receive a ‘good daddies are HOT’ t-shirt and a daddy-friendly diaper bag. Click on the link to be taken to the contest page. Don’t forget to look around while you’re there! There are tons of cute, chic items for everyone!

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The Wages of Spam

There have been literally thousands of articles written on the subject of “spam” (and no, I am not referring to the canned lunchmeat); what it is, how to stop it, the dangers of using it. There are whole sites and specific laws devoted to it. People talk about it on groups, in forums and via email. News stories pop up telling us that another big spammer has been caught and arrested. And still it continues to plague our inboxes. The costs associated with the sending and receiving of unsolicited emails is astronomical; not only the costs to individuals who are scammed every day as a result of these emails, but for taxpayers as well, as new laws and techniques to combat it are being enacted every day by law enforcement and government agencies.

Each and every day people are bombarded with electronic correspondence with “tips” on how to improve their love lives, places to get prescription drugs without a prescription, how to get high dollar software for free or at ridiculously low cost, and how to make your fortune online without lifting a finger. And it doesn’t stop there. There are literally millions of spam emails sent on a daily basis on every subject one can imagine. It comes from big businesses, representatives of big businesses, work at home moms, small independent business owners, con artists; the list goes on and on. People are taken for millions of dollars each year, by falling for scams perpetrated by the use of these ambiguous emails.

By simple definition, spam is “any deceptive or unsolicited commercial email”. In other words, ANY commercial email that the recipient didn’t ask for is spam. According to the 2003 CAN-SPAM laws, in any business email (even those from mailing lists that have subscribers who not only subscribe but then have to confirm the subscription) you must identify it as a commercial email, you must include your PHYSICAL business address, and you must provide a way for the recipient to “opt out” of getting any more of them. Now, that doesn’t mean that you can send an email to just anyone you want, and as long as you include those 3 things it isn’t spam. On the contrary; if it is UNSOLICITED, meaning your recipient didn’t specifically ask for it, then it is spam no matter how much “legal” information you include in it.

You have to wonder, if everyone knows what spam is, and if everyone knows that there are laws against it, and if everyone is employing the “bigger and better” spam controls on their email programs, then what could these spammers still be getting out of sending spam? The answer is simple: MONEY. There is always someone willing to open up the spam and “take advantage” of the so-called “great deals” inside it!

As a member of various groups, it is not uncommon for me to see a post that says something like “I have been receiving emails from ‘XYZ Company’, they look good, so I was wondering if anyone had any information on them, good or bad.” Well first of all, they sent you spam. Isn’t that enough to determine whether they are good or bad? They have engaged in illegal and unscrupulous business activities in order to get your attention and your money. I am going to err on the side of caution and say, “BAD”. But that is just me.

Being vigilant in trying to combat spam is all we have when it comes to stopping it. You have to take control of your own inbox. Stop opening spam emails. Stop reading spam emails. Stop forwarding spam emails. And for heaven’s sake, stop USING spam emails! If you DO happen to open one, then be sure to forward it to the proper authorities. Most email hosts have an “abuse” or “spam” email address to which you can send the offending correspondence. When you send them one of these emails, be sure to use full headers containing the IP and other information on the sender. If you can’t figure out how to do that, then consult the “Help” files in your specific program. Always forward the emails with that header so that it can be determined from where the email originated.

If you receive any suspicious email that appears to be from anywhere you have secure personal and financial information stored, such as PayPal, Ebay, your bank, etc. and you aren’t sure about it, then DO NOT EVER click ANY link within that email. Log out of your email program, type in the SECURE link to the business web site (secure links begin with https:), and only then log in to your account and check things out. There are specific factors that determine whether an email is legitimate or fraudulent. Please read any information that these entities provide on what constitutes a legitimate email. For example, if it is an email from a REAL institution such as PayPal or EBay, it will call you by name. If the email starts with “Dear Valued Customer”, then you know beyond a doubt that it is fraudulent and should be forwarded immediately to the abuse division of that particular institution. Be sure you are familiar with the other specific details that will help you spot these counterfeit messages.

Of course it is one thing to receive spam. It is quite another if YOU are the one sending the unsolicited emails. If you are a web site owner, an independent representative of any company, or if you do any other type of business online, and you decide to blast emails to everyone you ever emailed (or that has ever emailed you), or if you join groups just to “harvest” or steal the email addresses of its members, then please reconsider. Remember, it takes more that a subject line of “Do not delete this email; it is not spam”, to make it legitimate. If you are using these measures to gain more leads, get more sales, or for any other type of commercial “payoff”, then you my friend are a spammer and you are breaking the law! You can be fined thousands of dollars per incident if caught and convicted. If you want to be seen as a legitimate and honest business person, then spamming is not the way to achieve that!

The bottom line is this: we all pay for spam. The only way we can ever hope to make it a thing of the past is to stop giving spammers what they want and to be very sure we ourselves are not engaging in this illegal and deceitful practice.

For more information on spam, please visit the FTC website and read the CAN-SPAM Act for yourself: http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/conline/pubs/buspubs/canspam.shtm or http://www.ftc.gov/spam

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Kandi Traxel is a WAHM and the owner of Shop With a Mom http://www.shopwithamom.com and A Love of Coffee http://www.aloveofcoffee.com

Holy Cow!!!

Tonight, my site, www.SimplyTheBestCandles.biz was picked up by a couple of freebies sites for my free candle of the month sample.  I went from getting about 10 requests a MONTH to several hundred TODAY!  There is no way I’m going to be able to fulfill all of these, I feel horrible…but what can a girl do???

A new product ~ Pumpkin Pie

Can I just start by saying how much I love the company I am in?  I truly believe they want the very BEST for their distributors (instead of just fat pockets).  They are always looking out for new products that will actually benefit us, and be used by our customers.

This week we introduced our new Pumpkin Pies.  Want the smell and look of a Pumpkin Pie without the work?  We’ve got it!  These make beautiful, unique gifts and will be appreciated by their recipients!

SLACKER, Slacker, slacker

Aggghhhh, it sucks being a slacker, lol.  I haven’t updated my blog in over a week, and there’s just not much to talk about.  I guess I’d better start reading more, or doing more…so I have something to talk about!

Anyways…this weekend I will be doing a craft show in the Red Feather Subdivision clubhouse.  For any of you that are local, stop by and check it out.  It’s on Saturday from 9am-2pm.  There will be food, a Body Shop lady is going to be there, so you can soak your feet, I’ll have candles, and there will be much more!  You can come support your local Stay at Home Moms!

New Team Member & A New Banner

Today Elizabeth from Virgina joined my team!  I am very excited to be working with her, she has previous direct-sales experience, and has already sold candles to help her get her business started.  She’s a real go-getter, and I couldn’t have asked for a better team member!  She’ll probably never see this, but I’m glad to have her nonetheless.

If you are interested in earning extra money selling candles, or joining a great, growing team, please let me know.  I will give you more information, and you can find out if this might be a good fit for you!  :)  

The best candles, and the best team!  www.SimplyTheBestCandles.biz

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I got a new banner today, I really like it!  I’d like to give a quick thank-you to Deana @ Kidzoos for designing my banner.  She is a real pleasure to work with!

New Banners

I had some new banners made. I think they turned out very well. As soon as I get permission from the creators, I will be posting links to their website. Both ladies were very easy to work with and did a wonderful job!

Sending money online and via your cellphone

I was introduced to a great new service today. It’s called Obopay. You can send money via your cell phone to anyone else with a cell phone. It has hardly any fees, especially compared to PayPal. They also have an optional prepaid mastercard to go with it. You get $10 just for signing up, and $5 for each referral you send. Sounds pretty good to me :)

Sign up and get $10